HOW TO TEACH SEX EDUCATION TO MUSLIM CHILDREN

Q. How should a child be taught subjects of a sexual nature? How should he / she be informed of prohibited and permissible acts, about masturbation, zina, etc.? What age would be proper to teach them about these issues?
A. Western influence has prompted you to ask this question. The western kuffaar are immorally obsessed with sex, hence they satanically fabricate sex ‘education’ for children.
How did you gain knowledge of these sexual issues? How did the millions and billions of children from the time of Nabi Aadam (Alayhis salaam) acquire this knowledge? In the same way as you and us all acquired this knowledge, so too will all other children until the Day of Qiyaamah acquire it. Do not burden your brains with copro-stupidities.

Giving up sins

Q: I need some help. I’m 23 years of age and from a conservative Muslim minority. My problem started when I was younger and I was introduced to porn movies and masturbation. I need your advice.

A: The best solution for you is to get married. If you cannot get married then commence fasting and daily take out some time daily to meditate over death and the stages after death.

Meditate over the following at a time when nothing obstructs you, perhaps after Esha Salaah. First make a proper wudhu and perform two rakaats of Taubah Salaah. Thereafter, focus deeply over death and the events that will follow after death, the loneliness of the grave, standing before Allah Ta`ala for reckoning, Jannah and Jahannum and thereafter think to yourself, can you tolerate Jahannum for a single moment. When you cannot, then how can you be brazen about matters that will take you to Jahannum.

Reprimand yourself saying that you are enjoying the comforts of Allah Ta`ala and His favours during the day and night, and is this the way to show appreciation to the one who is so loving and caring. Explain to yourself that the one who leads this type of life really does not have any understanding of loyalty and faithfulness to the one who is most loving and beneficent towards him.

After crying over your sins with deep remorse and regret, make a firm resolve that you will never repeat these wrongs in the future.

And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

عن عبد الرحمن بن يزيد قال دخلت مع علقمة والأسود على عبد الله فقال عبد الله كنا مع النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم شبابا لا نجد شيئا فقال لنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يا معشر الشباب من استطاع الباءة فليتزوج فإنه أغض للبصر وأحصن للفرج ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء (صحيح البخاري، الرقم: 5066)

عن أبي هريرة قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أكثروا ذكر هاذم اللذات يعني الموت وفي الباب عن أبي سعيد هذا حديث حسن غريب (سنن الترمذي، الرقم: 2307)

عن عمرو بن مرة قال سمعت أبا عبيدة يحدث عن أبي موسى عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال إن الله عز وجل يبسط يده بالليل ليتوب مسيء النهار ويبسط يده بالنهار ليتوب مسيء الليل حتى تطلع الشمس من مغربها (صحيح مسلم، الرقم: 2759)

قال العلماء التوبة واجبة من كل ذنب فإن كانت المعصية بين العبد وبين الله تعالى لا تتعلق بحق آدمي فلها ثلاثة شروط أحدها أن يقلع عن المعصية والثاني أن يندم على فعلها والثالث أن يعزم أن لايعود إليها أبدا فإن فقد أحد الثلاثة لم تصح توبته وإن كانت المعصية تتعلق بآدمي فشروطها أربعة هذه الثلاثة وأن يبرأ من حق صاحبها فإن كانت مالا أو نحوه رده إليه وإن كانت حد قذف ونحوه مكنه منه أو طلب عفوه وإن كانت غيبة استحله منها ويجب أن يتوب من جميع الذنوب فإن تاب من بعضها صحت توبته عند أهل الحق من ذلك الذنب وبقي عليه الباقي وقد تظاهرت دلائل الكتاب والسنة وإجماع الأمة على وجوب التوبة (رياض الصالحين صـ 14)

وقال البيضاوي سئل على رضي الله عنه عن التوبة فقال يجمعها ستة أشياء على الماضي من الذنوب الندم وللفرائض الاعادة ورد المظالم واستحلال الخصوم وان تعزم على ان لا تعود وان تزكى نفسك على طاعة اللّه كما رايتها فى المعصية (التفسير المظهري 9/345)

لا خلاف أن النكاح فرض حالة التوقان حتى أن من تاقت نفسه إلى النساء بحيث لا يمكنه الصبر عنهن وهو قادر على المهر والنفقة ولم يتزوج يأثم (بدائع الصنائع 2/228)

الاستمناء حرام وفيه التعزير (الفتاوى الهندية 2/170)

Answered by:

Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

A DEVIL MUFTI (ABU LAYTH)

Q. There has been a popular discussion on social media on Sahih Bukhari, including scholars. A Mufti Abul Layth rejects the authority and authenticity of Sahih Bukhari. He brands the Ahaadith ‘absurd’. He rejects Sahih Bukhari being the most authentic book after the Qur’aan. What is his status in terms of the Shariah?
A. According to the Shariah, this moron so-called ‘mufti’ is a kaafir. Social media Shaitaani media. The ‘popular discussion happening’ on the Shaitani media is in reality a mockery of the Deen. To safeguard one’s Imaan, it is necessary to abstain from the discussions of the jaahil ‘scholars’ who are responsible for making a mockery of the Deen. Such vile scholars have been predicted by Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam).
This Abu Layth character is a devil’s ‘mufti’. It is an insult to Knowledge to afford his stupid views of kufr intelligent debate and discussion. He is shaitaan-incarnate. These comments suffice to dismiss the
jahaalat and the kufr effluvium which this devil in human form excretes.
May Allah Ta’ala save unwary and ignorant Muslims from the kufr of this shaitaanul ins (human devil). After twelve centuries this devil pops up and plots with his master, Iblees-in-Chief to undermine
the Deen.

Q. A man, Abu Layth in the U.K., posing as a Maaliki, is propagating many weird views of kufr. Among his deviances are the following:

1) Tattooing the body is halaal.
2) Wearing earrings is halaal for men.
3) Masturbation is halaal.
4) He rejects the coming of Imaam Mahdi (Alayhis salaam).
5) He denies the Khurooj of Dajjaal.
6) He denies the coming of Nabi Isaa (Alayhis salaam).
7) He criticizes Imaam Bukhaari (Rahmatullah alayh).
8) He calls Bukhaari Shareef fairy tales.
Besides these, he has many other absolutely shaitaani ideas and teachings.
What is the status of this man who is supposedly an Aalim?
A. Shaitaan too was a great Aalim. Rasulullah’s predictions have to materialize. The appearances of human devils (Shayaateenul ins) as mentioned by Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) has to occur. The lout you have mentioned is one such devil in human form. Perhaps he is the Devil Incarnate, hence he disgorges the satanic effluvium listed by you.
It should be obvious to all Muslims that this villain is not a Muslim. He is a Munaafiq masquerading as a Muslim. Shaitaan has innumerable such agents prowling around the world. Their profession is to deviate Muslims and lead them to the path of Jahannam. Only those destined to be the inmates of Jahannam will follow such a shaitaani crank as the hoodlum pointed out by you.
Complicit in the kufr and fisq propagated by this human devil are the Ulama at your end. Those who maintain silence whilst the Rubbish propagates his rubbish, are also shayaateen. Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) branded them ‘Dumb Devils’.
Whilst the appearances of these minor Dajjaals is imperative and a cause of grief for us, they are among the Signs of Qiyaamah and have to be accepted. There is nothing surprising in their onslaught on the Deen. This type of evil and fitnah is incremental as we approach Qiyaamah.